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09/30/2021 1:00 PM | Mike Johnsen (Administrator)

Chellie Campbell,
Financial Stress
Reduction Expert

Send Out Ships–Send Out Canoes & Cruise Ships!

The vision must be followed by the venture. It is not enough to stare up the steps—we must step up the stairs. Vance Havner

Thinking positive is your first step to living rich, inside and out. But it is not enough. You have to take action to achieve your goals. I call this “Sending Out Ships.” 

In the nineteenth century, the merchants in London built grand, tall-masted sailing ships. It would take many months, sometimes years, to build them.

Then they would hire a crew, outfit the ship and store provisions for the long sea voyage. One fine day, the ship would weigh anchor, hoist her sails, and sail out of London harbor, on her way to visit foreign ports and trade for gold, jewels, silks, and spices.

The trip would take many months—often years—and there were no communication lines open then: No ship-to-shore radio, no telegraph, no cellular telephones.

Once the ship had sailed, the merchant could do nothing more; only wait for that future day when the ship would return, sailing into London harbor laden with treasure.

On that day, the merchant’s fortune was made. And that’s where the expression “I’m waiting for my ship to come in,” comes from. 

But some people are going down to the dock, waiting for their ship to come in—but they haven’t sent any out!

If you want the fortune, your responsibility each day is to send out some ships.

And you had better send out more than one, because stuff happens to ships: One runs aground just outside of the harbor, another sinks in a hurricane. A few get commandeered by pirates, the whirlpool gets one, and on the next one there’s a mutiny and they sail off to Pitcairn Island and aren’t heard from for another twenty years.

Then, of course, there’s the one that hits the iceberg!

Once you send the ship out, it’s out of your control. You are only in charge of sending it out, not when it comes in. 

When you get into the habit of sending ships out on a daily basis, even if you know some ships aren’t going to make it back home, you are still confident and optimistic because you know you have a whole fleet sailing out there. 

It creates a positive expectation that ships are going to be sailing in, docking at your pier and unloading riches for you any minute. Positive energy shines from you. You feel good about yourself because you’ve been doing what it takes to succeed.

This is what Tony Robbins, in his book, Awaken the Giant Within, calls “massive, positive, constructive action on a daily basis.” (Although that sounds a little too much like hard work to me.) I prefer the image of breaking the champagne bottle and waving goodbye to a proud clipper ship on a beautiful spring day as it sets forth on my behalf. And then celebrating the ship’s safe arrival with all my wealth. 

Send those ships out every day. Then prepare to unload your treasures.

Today’s Affirmation: “Today is a big money day!”

Every little action you take towards getting your goals pays off. Even the ships that sink are adding to the energy you possess that helps build the next ship. It doesn’t matter that some ships sink, it matters that some of the fleet make it into port unloading treasures at your dock. 

People often ask me to give them examples of ships. If you’re in business for yourself, ships are sales and marketing. Here are some of my ships: 

This blog
My website
My Dolphin Club
Cheese and Crackers with Chellie Videos on FB
Email newsletters
Email ads
Building relationships on Social Networking sites:
Twitter
Facebook
LinkedIn
Clubhouse
Building relationships at live networking events
Building relationships at Zoom networking events
Giving speeches, Webinars, Free Zoom Classes
Answering email questions
Answering phone questions
Follow up, follow up, follow up

But the greatest of these is “Reach out and call someone!” 

Because “The Money is in The Phone!”

This article has been adapted from Send Out Ships in The Wealthy Spirit: Daily Affirmations for Financial Stress Reduction.

Chellie Campbell, Financial Stress Reduction Expert, is the author of bestselling books The Wealthy Spirit, Zero to Zillionaire, and most recently From Worry to Wealthy: A Woman’s Guide to Financial Success Without the Stress. She is widely quoted in major media including Redbook, Good Housekeeping and more than 50 popular books. She has been treating Money Disorders like Spending Bulimia and Income Anorexia in her Financial Stress Reduction® Workshops for over 25 years. Her website is www.chellie.com.

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